F3 Knoxville

12 Growing together through the Journey

THE SCENE:  In the low 40s with rain waining off. heavy clouds
F3 WELCOME & DISCLAIMER

standard disclaimer. no FNGS
WARM-O-RAMA:

SSH 21 IC
Baby Arm Circles 10 IC thumbs up
Baby Arm Circles 10 IC thumbs down
Windmills – 10 IC
Merkins – 5 OYO

THA-THANG:
Indian Run Mosey up hill to drainage entrance with large rocks
Grab a rock
Curls – 20 IC
Rows – 31 IC
Presses – 42 IC
5 Merkins

Indian Run Mosey back to lot across from AO

4 cones are set up around the parking lot and one in the covered area by the concession stand (adjacent to new playground)

There is one exercise at each station.

  1. Squats, Bernie to 2. Merkins, run to 3, Hello Dollys, run to 4 , bench dips

Complete the exercise at each station – first round is 5 reps, second round is 10 reps, third round is 20, fourth is 10 and fifth is 5

Repeat with second exercise posted at each cone

  1. Lunge, Bernie to 2, 2. Plank Jacks (1ct), run to 3, 3. American Hammers, (2 CT), run to 4, 4. Bench pull ups,

Mosey back to AO after completed

MARY:
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COUNT-OFF & NAME-O-RAMA
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CIRCLE OF TRUST/BOM:
In October, I was in the Phoenix area and was fortunate enough to be able to post at the F3 AO Dog House in Gilbert, so I was added to their slack channel. It was an awesome workout with a great group of HIMs. On the subsequent slack postings, I saw this post from F3 brother @Thrall:

@channel Hey all, just wanted to pop in here and say how grateful I am for this group. I joined the Monday after my wife announced that she wanted to leave me after 7 years of marriage. I think God brought me F3 right when I needed it and he has used the men I have met here to really be an encouragement to me in probably the biggest and toughest season in my life so far. I think it’s why I’m insane enough to get up at 3 and make it time for a great BD or Camelback, every week. It’s because I NEED it. I need the comradery, I need the challenge, I need battle brothers in my corner. It is necessary that I wake up at 3 and drive an hour and a half, and post. It is essentially for my spiritual, physical and mental growth. So thank you to those I’ve met, and thank you for suiting up and showing up. And to all the F3 brothers in this chat, some I’ve met, many I haven’t, and a lot I may never meet… when its hard to drag yourself out of bed, remember that there might be an FNG that’s hurting for community and needs an army to help fight his battles. I know that I did. So again thank you to those I see out there, thank you for the conversations, the care you take to know who I am, the wisdom and for the brotherhood. See you out there in the gloom!
This inspired me. While preparing for my Q this week, I came across the standard F3 website material and it really made me think. So here it is ( I know you have all seen and read this many times)

If the 1st F is what brings a guy to F3, it is the 2nd F that is the “glue” that causes them to stay and stick with it.  It’s easy to get someone out for a free workout. But for most of the F3 guys, the reason they keep coming back — setting their alarm for 5:00 AM three, four or five days a week — is the friendships that are built.

It’s not just about getting better. It’s about getting better together.

At the heart of F3 is a passion to see men grow physically, mentally, relationally and spiritually.
Growth = Challenge + Consistency + Camaraderie
To experience long-term growth, we need to push ourselves intentionally and routinely with the encouragement and support of others on the same journey.

I think the keywords there are Push and Intentional

We all are at different points on that journey, but we are all on the journey. At some points you yourself may not need much support and encouragement, but others might. So its important to be there, to show up and be part of the routine.

MOLESKIN:

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ANNOUNCEMENTS:
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It looked good on paper – Juco

THE SCENE: Low sixties, heavy clouds and some misting
F3 WELCOME & DISCLAIMER

Standard disclaimer, no FNGs
WARM-O-RAMA:

SSH – 20 IC
Baby arm circles – IC, 10 up, 10 down
Rockettes – 10 IC
Cherry Pickers – 10 IC
Quick mosey to stop sign and back
Grady Corns – 34 IC

THA-THANG:

Mosey to large parking lot north of AO
Run to 4 stations – one station at each corner. Complete Exercise at each station
Lunge (2ct), Merkins, Iron Mike (1ct), American Hammer (2ct). Karaoke between stations 1-2 and 3-4, run between 2-3 and 4-1
5 rep, then 10 reps, then 25 reps.
20 sec rest
Repeat with second group of exercises
Imperial Walkers (2ct), Plank Jacks, Freddie Mercuries, Rocky Balboa. Bernie between stations 1-2 and 3-4, run between 2-3 and 4-1

Mosey north to building on corner

11’s – Dips on retaining wall, run around corner to retaining wall by picnic tables, Step ups.

Mosey Back to AO

MARY:
None
COUNT-OFF & NAME-O-RAMA

CIRCLE OF TRUST/BOM:

Holidays are Coming.  A few words to help prepare

Minimize the stress and maximize celebration of the season

  • Have a discussion with the M to set a budget
    • Plan for unexpected expenses
  • Don’t get caught up in the commercialization of the holidays – focus on family and Jesus.
  • My family will be traveling to our home town in Illinois for Thanksgiving. There are some tensions within the family recently and we are a bit anxious about the Thanksgiving get together
    • For family gatherings – if you family has historically had someone who causes tension, it’s likely this will continue. Be ready to deal with the situation and de escalate if necessary.

MOLESKIN:

ANNOUNCEMENTS:

17 Humble HIMs at Asylum

THE SCENE: Sunny about 65 F
F3 WELCOME & DISCLAIMER

Normal disclaimers. No fngs tonight
WARM-O-RAMA:

SSH – 20 IC

Arm circles – 10 thumbs up, 10 thumbs down

Michael Phelps arm warm ups

Cherry Pickers – 10 IC

Slow Mosey to Tree and back

Grady Corns – 34 IC

THA-THANG:
Mosey to stop sign – 11’s – LBC 2ct at bottom, run to cone up and do Reverse Lunges

Run down road to lower- lower stairs directly below bat cave:

Blimps (progressive)- do exercise, run to base of bat caves stairs, run back down stairs and repeat adding 1 exercise each time until all are done

Bobby Hurley- 5, Lunge – 10 sc, Imp Walker- 15 2 CT, Merkins-20, Plank Jacks- 25 sc, Squats – 30

Mosey to front of Admin Building. Progressive. 1 Squat, then run 1/4 around circle to left, do 5x squat count star jumps, run back, then 2 squats and run to do 10 star jumps, then back. 3 squats, 15 start jumps, etc until about 30 or we cant do anymore

Mosey to AO. Plank for 2 minutes

MARY:
COUNT-OFF & NAME-O-RAMA

CIRCLE OF TRUST/BOM:
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13 Habits Of Humble People

Sections cut from March 1, 2015 Forbes Magazine article by Jeff Boss

 

They’re Situationally Aware

Situational awareness is a function of emotional intelligence as it is being aware of oneself, the group, the actions of each and the social dynamics therein. As such, situationally aware people aim their focus outward as they try to absorb (i.e. learn) more about the situation

They Retain Relationships

Studies have shown that humble people are more likely to help friends than their prideful counterparts.

They Make Difficult Decisions With Ease

Since humble people put others’ needs before their own, when faced with difficult decisions they respect the moral and ethical boundaries that govern the decision and base their decision-making criteria off a sense of shared purpose rather than self-interest.

They Put Others First

Humble people know their self-worth. As a result, they don’t feel the need to cast themselves before others just to show them how much they know. Instead, humble people realize that nobody cares how much they know until those people know how much they’re cared for.

They Listen

There’s nothing more annoying that being in a conversation with somebody who you can just tell is dying to get his or her words in. When you see their mental gears spinning, it’s a sign they’re not listening but rather waiting to speak. Why? Because they believe that what they have to say is more valuable than listening to you. In other words, they’re placing their self-interest first.

Humble people, however, actively listen to others before summarizing the conversation. Moreover, humble people don’t try to dominate a conversation or talk over people. They’re eager to understand others because they’re curious.

They’re Curious

Humble people seek knowledge because they are perpetual learners and realize that they don’t have all the answers. They glean knowledge from the experiences of others and crave more opportunities to learn.

They Speak Their Minds

While active listening is certainly important, humble people aren’t afraid to speak their minds because being wrong is not a fear they have. They know that to bridge the gap between unwillingness and willingness there must be action; they summon the courage to face difficulty as they graciously accept to sacrifice themselves.

They Take Time To Say “Thank You”

They Have An Abundance Mentality

Humble people don’t believe that one person’s “win” necessarily mean another person’s “loss.”

They Start Sentences With “You” Rather Than “I”

Humble people put others at the forefront of their thoughts. Humble people brag about others, while the prideful people brag about themselves.

They Accept Feedback

Humble people are not only receptive to constructive criticism but actively seek it because they know that feedback is a pathway to improvement.

They Assume Responsibility

Rather than eschewing blame on “the system” or the behaviors of others, humble people assume responsibility by speaking up and owning their part.

They Ask For Help

Part of being humble means realizing that you don’t have all the answers. No one does. Humble people acknowledge what they do and do not know and enlist help for the latter.

Humility displays a willingness to learn and become better–two things that everybody should cultivate.

MOLESKIN:

ANNOUNCEMENTS:
brolympics Nov 5

15 HIMs putting in the work at Asylum

THE SCENE: Overcast and in the mid 80’s with some lingering humidity
F3 WELCOME & DISCLAIMER
WARM-O-RAMA:

SSH IC – 20
Cherry Pickers 15
Arm Circles IC  10 x 2
Michael Phelps a/r
Grady Corn I/C 33
Merkins OYO 10

THA-THANG:
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Mosey down to stop sign
5 forward lunges
5 backwards lunges
5 burpees
Mosey to pathway to the left in front of small parking lot
5, 10 , 25 Nickel dime quarter
Bernie to first light, run to second light – 5 american hammers, 2 CT
Bearcrawl to next light, run to second 10
Side straddle  to first light, run to second 25, sweep back
Bernie to first light, run to second light – 5 Merkins
Bearcrawl to first light, run to second 10
Side straddle  to first light, run to second 25, sweep back
Bernie to first light, run to second light – 5 Freddie Mercuries
Bearcrawl to first light, run to second 10
Side straddle  to first light, run to second 25, sweep back
Mosey to hill side, Find partner
SSH at bottom, partner runs to top Heal Raises (20)
Imperial Walkers at bottom, merkins (20)
Mountain Climbers at bottom, Squats (20)
Back down to walkway at light
Hello Dollies – single count 5, run 2 lights, 10, run 2 lights , 25 sweep back
Shoulder Taps – 2 count 5, 2 count 10, 2 count 25
mosey  up hill directly below bat cave
Top hill with partner
Squats, partner runs to wall to do 20 bench dips
up the stairs to AO, do 3 Merkins OYO

MARY:
none
COUNT-OFF & NAME-O-RAMA
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CIRCLE OF TRUST/BOM:

August 31 is International Overdose Awareness day

North America continues to experience the highest drug-related mortality rate in the world, accounting for one in four drug-related deaths globally, the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime reports.

The US rate is about 90,000 deaths per year

Knox county, there have been 11 deaths so far this year, with year to date deaths at about 291 according to the Knox County Attorney General s office, with about 498 last year and we are on that track this year.

I lost my son Grady due to an accidental overdose caused by Fentanyl in 2018.

The drug-related death report for 2021 from Knox County Regional Forensic Center brings to light some alarming statistics.

  • The five most common drugs identified in drug-related deaths in 2020 were synthetic opioids, methamphetamine, diphenhydramine, alcohol/ethanol, and cocaine.
  • The most frequent cause of drug-related deaths in 2021 was fentanyl and fentanyl analogs, which are structurally similar to fentanyl but are types of synthetic opioids.
  • Over 75% of drug-related deaths were found to be cases of polypharmacy, where more than one drug was responsible for the person’s death.
  • Knox County had a 29% increase in drug-related deaths from 2020 to 2021.
  • People ages 35-40 experienced the most drug deaths in Knox County.
  • The sharpest increase in drug-related groups was in individuals ages 55-64.
  • The presence of anxiety, anti-depressant, and anti-psychotic medication was found in 30 percent of all drug deaths in Knox County.

 

The drug dealers are lacing everything with fentanyl which is 50 times stronger that heroin and 100 time stronger then morphine – less than a drop of water or the weight of a few grains of sand are lethal. Please talk to your children, teens and make them aware of this risk. Use of naloxone/Narvan can reverse the effects of a drug od.

On Aug 31, from 5-8 pm there will be an event at Volunteer Landing sponsored by the Knoxville Metro Drug Coalition with various speakers. The event will end with a candlelight vigil.

The Metro Drug Coalition is a local resource with a goal is to increase access to evidence-based prevention education, harm reduction programs and recovery support services for anyone desiring to maintain or seek a life free from substance misuse.

The harm reduction aspect of this organization is as follows:

Harm Reduction is a way of preventing disease and promoting health that meets people where they are rather than making judgments about where

MOLESKIN:
Pray for Bluebird (his family and especially his father in law JC) who recently lost his mother in law and for Drum Major’s daughter who is moving into the dorms and all the students who are moving from home for the first time and will be on their own
ANNOUNCEMENTS:
Welcome FNG Isaac (@Loveboat).

Steam and Brick will be leading a discussion every wednesday about the book “fighting the war inside your head”

15 Strong at Asylum

THE SCENE: Hot, humid and overcast
F3 WELCOME & DISCLAIMER 
WARM-O-RAMA:

SSH IC – 21
Arm Circles up IC  10
Arm circles dow IC  10
Michael Phelps a/r
Cherry Pickers 11
Mosey to bottom of stairs and around the cones and back up
Grady Corn IC 20

THA-THANG:

Mosey to stop sign
11’s – Rocky Balboa – Squat – to cone
Pause
Mosey to wall
Peoples Chair against wall for 60 sec
Mosey to second wall
Peoples Chair against wall for 60 sec
Mosey to Admin Bldg
Get Partner
Heal dips – partner runs to tree on lawn,  does 1 squat
Step up, partner does 5 squats
Bench dips , 15 squats
pause, rinse and repeat
LUnges, 1 squat
Freddy Mercury, 5 squats
Imperial Walker ,15 squats
Ring of Fire – 3 rounds
Mosey back to AO with cooler
Down Stairs
Bear crawl around cones, then run back up stairs
20 2 count american hammers
LBC – 30 IC

MARY:
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COUNT-OFF & NAME-O-RAMA

CIRCLE OF TRUST/BOM:

Following up on the 5 things that Steam mentioned on Tuesday,  one of the 5 is habits with the T in habits = Time . The time factor is huge when you look at things you are doing. Simplifying your life will open up your available time and make room for high impact activities. Simplify

Personally, as an engineer I tend to over complicate things in order to make whatever I am doing the absolute best.  Often times that the effort ends up taking longer and really wasn’t worth the extra effort. Look for the simple solutions that are good enough.

I recently was notified by Google that my storage was at the max, so I needed to buy more space or reduce storage.  I had over 14,000 emails in my primary box.  Over the years I had subscribed (intentionally and unintentionaly) to various companies and they kept sending me email some sent something once every few days or more. I don’t even open 99% of them and took me forever to reduce these and I realized why in the heck did I subscribe since I did not read any of them.  I also don’t delete the uncritical ones after I read them, so I ended up where I am today- 14.5 Gb of  emails because I didn’t file them and delete them correctly to begin with.

Facebook – I don’t post but I check it once a day.  This is time that I can never get back

News feeds on my phone, 95% of what I read is pretty much worthless

TV- I watch the morning news while I have been doing my physical therapy exercises daily since Feb 10, pretty much every day.  I can get the essentials in less that 10 minutes and can use the rest with better input.

Paying someone to do the tedious tasks.  I change the oil and do most of the maintenance on my vehicles.

The ability to simplify means to eliminate the unnecessary so that the necessary may speak (Hans Hofmann)

Point is, these things can suck your time and keep you from finding your higher level purpose, keep you away from those in your life that need your time and of course from doing Gods’ work. So take a close look at the things or habits that have made your life un necessarily complex and find a way to simplify.

MOLESKIN:
Pray for @Bluebird in his upcoming trip to Greece
ANNOUNCEMENTS:
August 6 – Work Day at Cerebral Palsy Center – need help!