Guys I have debated whether or not to send this out. I don’t want to seem crass or opportunistic but it is truly weighing heavy on my heart.
“We weren’t prepared to lose him…” Cardinal’s Wife.
Men this sentence has sat heavier and heavier with me since I first read it. Being a part of F3 means being a High Impact Man. One part of being a High Impact Man is making sure your family’s six is covered. Your M’s and 2.0’s will never be prepared to lose you but you can make sure that they are prepared to lose you.
Men, if you don’t have life insurance/income protection now is the time to get it. We have seen firsthand how immediate and unplanned our lives can end. Please, please, please don’t disregard this message. It is easy to get, monthly costs as much as a dinner for a family of 5 to eat out, some is ALWAYS better than none, and it never hurts to look it over again to make sure you have enough.
A few tips for buying life insurance:
Stay away from products that have savings tied to them. Products named, Whole Life, Universal Life, Cash Value etc. Stick with Term Life Insurance.
You’ll want your term to carry you ideally to retirement age. At which point you will hopefully be self insured with your retirement savings.
Don’t sacrifice term (length of coverage) for amount of coverage. Can’t afford $500,000 for 20 years now, then get $500,000 for 10 years and renew later.
You typically want 10 times your bring home pay. I.e. Your salary is $60,000 per year but $50,000 hits your bank account, then you’ll want $500,000 in coverage. That amount can be put in an investment account that will allow your wife and kids to withdraw 10% or $50,000 per year for 10+/-. This will allow your family time to grieve, give them margin,keep your family in their home, keep cars, etc.
If your M works you’ll want the same scenario listed above for her. If not, she still brings value into your home and you will need to hire someone to help out for a while. So consider coverage either way.
If this is confusing or you want to know more please reach out to someone you know. If you don’t know anyone or would like help navigating this please reach out to me. This is my passion in life. Making sure that families’ financial houses are strong and shored up.
I will gladly look over anything you have free of charge to make sure you and your family are properly protected. Don’t read this and not act on it. Reach out to me or someone you know. Just cover your family’s six.
JUCO Metric #1 January 2022
THE SCENE: Misting, dark, and cold. Perfect.
F3 WELCOME & DISCLAIMER
WARM-O-RAMA:
Side straddle hops in cadence 25
5 burpees OYO
Windmills in cadence 10
Arm rotations forwards in cadence 12
Arm rotations backwards in cadence 12
Cherry Pickers in cadence 6
Tempo Squats 10
THA-THANG:
Mosey to the coupon pile. Grab a coupon, set a 30 min timer, and get after it…
Mosey back to the flag with a Jail Break
MARY:
No Time…
COUNT-OFF & NAME-O-RAMA
Use the TAGS on right-side to record PAX (BE SURE TO INCLUDE YOURSELF) in attendance. Be sure to select the AO in CATEGORY above TAGS and then delete these notes!
CIRCLE OF TRUST/BOM:
The warrior ethos (AKA Jedi Training) consist of 13 pillars: commitment, honor, respect, prepared, faithful, fighter, hungry, humble, lover, teachable, firestarter, truthful, and generous.
Each one is tied to a Bible verse.
Faithful : the 5th pillar
The verse for this pillar is Matthew 25:23
“The master said, ‘Well done, my good and faithful servant. You have been faithful in handling this small amount, so now I will give you many more responsibilities. Let’s celebrate together!’”
Matthew 25:23 NLT
Be Full of Faith! Keep giving and you will never be without!!
MOLESKIN:
Insert any personal comments, notes, devotion content, etc.
ANNOUNCEMENTS:
Convergence at Rampart 7a tomorrow. Clown Cars leaving JUCO at 6:15a
The Equalizer
THE SCENE:
It was a cool damp morning as I remember it.
F3 WELCOME & DISCLAIMER
WARM-O-RAMA:
Did some light calisthenics to get the heart pumping and blood moving.
THA-THANG:
Had 13 exercises at 13 spots areound the AO. Reps were 13 four count movements, or was it 26 reps per movement?
MARY:
Time was perfected ended at 0615.
COUNT-OFF & NAME-O-RAMA
9 PAX in attendance.
CIRCLE OF TRUST:
Went over Hebrew 10:24-25, and why it’s important to gather together in order to spur and encourage one another.
MOLESKIN:
It is always great too be in the gloom with the men of F3. Always an encouragement and great start to the day!!
ANNOUNCEMENTS:
Memorial Q tomorrow 0700 at The Rampart in memory of Cardinal.
The courage to lead
THE SCENE: Warm for January, low 50s and damp. Something like Ideal gloom with a waning gibbous overhead
F3 WELCOME & DISCLAIMER
WARM-O-RAMA:
- Projectivators
- Tempo Squats
- LBACs
- Tempo Merkins
- Fence Steppers
- Grady corn
THA-THANG:
- Mosey to the parallel bars and have each man handwalk the parallel bars
- Mosey to the pool wall
- Wall sit-ups – All PAX wall sit then do a wall-up upon command.
- Repeat 5 times
- Mosey to recruiting center
- Relocate the entire block stack to the corner of the lot. TO move each block:
- 20 plyo-merkins or thrusters to farmer carry each block
- 20 4-ct heavy freddies or flutters to lunge the block
- 20 swings or good mornings to rifle carry the block
- Relocate the poles likewise in pairs
- 20 golden arches then shoulder carry
- Then move everything to the other corner of the parking lot
- Then put it all back where we found it
- Relocate the entire block stack to the corner of the lot. TO move each block:
- RTF
MARY:
11 Heels to heaven, 11 American Hammers
COUNT-OFF & NAME-O-RAMA
CIRCLE OF TRUST/BOM:
On Saturday, I was fortunate to attend the convergence down at Bombshelter and, among several benefits, hear a message from Cap’n Crunch, one of the OG founders of F3 Knoxville. His message was framed with four points on how to improve personal leadership:
- Resist Passivity
- Expect Long-term Gains
- Accept Responsibility
- Lead Courageously
While any one of these points could serve as the jump-off point, today I am focusing on Lead Courageously. Unlike some other virtues, like temperance or fortitude, Courage is a word that still gets a fair bit of use in the modern cultural lexicon. Pretty much no matter who you are or how you view the world, everyone agrees that courage is virtuous, because everyone agrees that there are things which ought to be done that fear prevents us from doing. Now, Cap’n Crunch noted, and it bears repeating here, that courage is not the absence of fear. If you are not afraid, then you have no need of courage. Rather, courage is fortitude to endure fear which makes possible justice despite opposition, temperance in the face of temptation, and prudence which sees future peril but is not diverted. C.S. Lewis, in the voice of Screwtape, put it this way:
“Courage is not simply one of the virtues, but the form of all virtues at the testing point, which means, at the point of highest reality. A chastity, or honesty, or mercy, which yields to danger will be chaste or honest or merciful only on conditions. Pilate was merciful till it became risky.” – Screwtape
Obviously, having courage is great, but how do I get it?
There is more than one way to answer this question, but today I want to focus on one that we moderns somehow often neglect: From the men at your side. Ever notice what lies at the center of this word: en-COURAGE-ment From time immemorial, men have been facing challenges in groups, even when it provides no pragmatic advantage. In fact, this reality lies at the very heart of F3. By facing our challenges together, with shields locked, we muster courage which we do not individually merit. Do not neglect to engage this resource, for:
36 “But about that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father.37As it was in the days of Noah, so it will be at the coming of the Son of Man.38For in the days before the flood, people were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, up to the day Noah entered the ark;39and they knew nothing about what would happen until the flood came and took them all away. That is how it will be at the coming of the Son of Man. (Matthew 24:36-39)
No one knows the future. If you desire to lead, you must either be naïve to this or courageous to face it.
MOLESKIN:
I am deeply grateful to have had the opportunity to lead you fine men this morning. Coming out of a bewildering day, you helped bring me back to center. Truly grateful for your fellowship today and always.
ANNOUNCEMENTS:
Convergence at Rampart Saturday to finish his VQ and honor his memory. Receiving of friends is 3-5 at South Harriman Baptist Church, Funeral at 6. Burial will be Sunday at 2 pm at Bookwalter Cemetery in Knoxville.
Share Your Burden
THE SCENE: 51 with a surprise shower during warm-o-rama.
F3 WELCOME & DISCLAIMER
WARM-O-RAMA:
SSH IC x20
LBAC IC x10 forward, x10 backward
Tempo Squat IC x10
Cherry Pickers x5, K-town cadence
THA-THANG:
- small rocks = perfect Curl-Press-Tri
- BIG rock = overhead hold
MARY:
Ran out of time.
COUNT-OFF & NAME-O-RAMA
CIRCLE OF TRUST/BOM:
MOLESKIN:
It was a pleasure to consider just how blessed we are to have each other. #ISI
ANNOUNCEMENTS:
Impromptu convergence, this Saturday, 1/14/23 in honor of Cardinal and support of Rampart.